I am at the stage of life where the wedding invites just keep rolling in! And if you’re like me, your mind is already buzzing thinking about what to wear to all of the events that are now popping up on your calendar. I have to admit it was hard for me to try and find what to wear, and I had so many questions!!
Well, since dressing for a wedding can be tricky, and trust me there is more to consider than you think, I’ve put together the do’s and don’ts that I found to help guide you through the invites of your own.
- DON’T wear white- to the wedding or pre-wedding events. This may seem like a no brainer but I wanted to lay it out just so to establish the ground rule. This also includes dresses that are mostly white but have other patterns like flowers on it. If you find yourself having to convince someone its a really pale blush or light gray, then it should probably stay at home.
- DO opt for a more romantic look- It’s a wedding, a celebration of love so be sure to get in the spirit and keep that in mind when you pick out what to wear. In other words, don’t be bold, save the edgy look, animal print, sequins, or over-the-top design for a separate occasion. Also, don’t write off styles like a jumpsuit, they can work too depending on the venue.
- DO wear your dancing shoes- The biggest thing at weddings and my favorite part is the dancing!! Be sure to find something between style and comfort that matches your ensemble so you can dance the night away with the couple. I will admit though, I am that person who will be barefoot on the dancefloor, just know that comes with its own risks.
- DO consider the season- If it is a winter wedding you may want to plan to wear layers if it is summer, you can show a little more skin but keep it classy.
- DO consider the location- A beach wedding will call for a much different attire than one being held at a vineyard or hotel. Use common sense to determine whether you should wear flip-flops or opt for the heels.
- DO be respectful of their religious affiliation- I know that most people are, but if you know that it is a Catholic wedding, consider returning to the layers rule and bring a layer to cover up your bare arms while at the ceremony.
- DON’T wear anything that is uncomfortable or just asking to be a wardrobe malfunction. You won’t enjoy yourself if you spend all night pulling up your strapless dress or pulling down your mini dress that almost shows your a** at its longest, and don’t wear something that’s so tight you can’t eat dinner in it.
- DON’T “forget” to wear your undergarments- Yes, we all know that it can be “sexy” for your date to know that you might be going commando, or maybe you just role that way naturally (hey more power to ya) but at a wedding, with kids running around, the last thing we want is that dreaded Marilyn Monroe moment or a dance floor twirl gone wrong to expose your bare naked behind. So, I would suggest wearing underwear and some Spanx just as a way to make sure that if anything were to happen, you and your behind are covered.
- DON’T worry if you want to wear black- while I encourage you to try for a different color, black isn’t as taboo as it used to be to wear to a wedding. Let that LBD have its moment!!
- DO overdress if you still don’t know- If with all of this you still don’t know what to wear just know as a base rule that it is always better to show up overdressed than underdressed.
Dress
Now that you have a few of the basic rules, let me show you some of my favorite picks for weddings this year! These are more on the budget-friendly side and a variety of styles to fit different seasons and venues!
